Don’t Compare Yourself to Others
Happy Friday ma lovelies! and welcome to a new month. I hope you’re having a fab start to the new season?Being a social media person can be very disappointing sometimes. I try very hard not to compare myself to others in this sector but I cannot help it, i only human after all. I know doing that only makes me a little jealous that I am not as successful as others. I sometimes feel, i work so hard to put content up there, why aren’t i getting the exposure I want but I am learning that now that I am older, I can’t get things my way anymore. Plus all those other successful bloggers, they’ve all had to work extremely hard to get where they are today. And only with hard work and perseverance will I ever succeed in the blogging industry. I just need to continue to be myself, enjoy what I do. If and when it becomes a chore, I don’t post because my followers can tell when I am grumpy. Even when people follow and un-follow you, don’t give up. Because one day, you will make it. Plus some people have massive followers but you may have more interaction with yours posts. As long as you’re consistent with your posts and are yourself online, people will feel connected and will stay true to you.How do you stop yourself from comparing yourself to others on social media?Thanks for stopping by x
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Sofia
September 1, 2017Yes so true, it can be disappointing sometimes but it is important to remember to love yourself!xx Sofia | SOFIAADOT
NATALIEFASHION97
September 1, 2017I love this rock style <3 Great trousers and vans ;)xoxoNATALIEFASHION97
Alina
September 1, 2017Great look! Such an important message <3A L I N A // alinacorona.de / Instagram
Sylwia
September 1, 2017wow soo pretty outfit! <3
Joling
September 2, 2017What a great post! Totally agree!xo, Joling
VVEEKEND 101
September 3, 2017Don’t be too insecure! You have all it takes to be a successful blogger! anw looking nice, love! <3VVEEKEND 101
Ellone
September 4, 2017That is so true! Only really hard work can get you where you want and you should always look up to such successful bloggers, because it can be quite motivating! :)Ellone | Looktheotherway.co | Minimal Lifestyle & Fashion
Carmen
September 4, 2017Oh I totally agree with your strong attitude dear! It’s so important to just stay true to yourself, no matter what others could be saying 🙂 Great styling!!xx, Carmen – http://carmitive.com
Deasy
September 4, 2017Oh man, getting into that comparison game is TOO easy, especially with social media. That’s why I try to keep my social media to a minimum. One way to not compare is to remind yourself of all the wonderful things that has happened to your life, irregardless of what others have done. Once you look only at yourself, you realize how blessed you are.http://www.ticketforadventure.com
Nevena Krstic
September 4, 2017You look great! And what you said is so true 🙂 xx
Irene | Hint of Grey
September 5, 2017Sometimes I just have to look away and not think about others too much! it will drive you nuts.love those ripped jeans btw!www.hintofgrey.com | Hint of Grey
Marisa Cavaleiro
September 5, 2017Thats so true but keep going with the good work.I like your hair…Xoxomarisascloset.blogspot.com
eloise gallant
September 5, 2017I always say that comparison is the thief of joy. great post dear and I think that as long as you love what you are doing, the numbers dont matter :)http://www.thewhimsicalwildling.com/
Andreea
September 5, 2017Gorgeous!!Check out my Fall Lookbook :)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mH7MzvnKxQ0
Camila
September 5, 2017This is always my problem right now in college. I always want to dress differently and since everyone here uses sneakers and jeans I feel uncomfortable and juts dress basic. Thank you for the inspiration gorgeous!Camila,My Vogue Style | http://www.myvoguestyle.com
The Fashion Folks
September 6, 2017Oh love this post! So true that we all can make it as long as we focus on ourselves and put in the effort. Yes to the empowerment! And love your jeans, they’re so so chic! Xxwww.thefashionfolks.com
streetmadonna
September 7, 2017Very true! It’s all about staying true to yourself and creating excellent content, which you are clearly doing. I totally understand the frustration of it all but I love your motivation.This outfit post is amazing. You look badass.www.streetmadonna.com
caroline
September 7, 2017Babe I loved your post ! Everything you said is so true !!!http://www.pardonmyobsession.com/
Anika May
September 7, 2017Love the positivity in this post, so inspiring! You look amazing too :)Anika xo | anikamay.co.uk
Kris
September 7, 2017Once you start comparing yourself to others, you stop being happy. You look amazing and I love your hair!Have an awesome day!xx Krishttps://dreamingofpink.wordpress.com
Irina
September 11, 2017The outfit is awesome! I love your style:)irinathayer.com
Swisstwins
September 14, 2017Wow you look amazing<3Have a nice day.Kisshttp://www.swisstwins.ch/
The Gluten Free Guide to Everything
September 19, 2017I know how you feel, I’m a starting blogger and it’s hard to not compare yourself to other, more successful, people, but don’t! You have your own strengths and are good in things they migt=ht nit be good in. By the way, I love the layout of your blog and your photos, you have quality content, don;t worry! And love te top, I’ve been to a concert of Guns ‘N Roses and it was awesome!